"Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." (Colossians 3:13) Unforgiveness leads to roots of bitterness and tightly binds you to offense. Forgiving is a choice - not a feeling. Lay your grievances at the foot of the cross and leave them there. You're not responsible for anyone else's reaction…your response is what God is looking at.